INSECURITY & A CALL FOR HEROES Insecurity is the fear of exposure, judgment or displacement. When we learn to recognize, love and express who we really are, we lose our fear of exposure. When we learn to recognize and embody truth, we lose our fear of judgment. And the fear of displacement vanishes, once we learn how to connect to the Whole through whatever place we’re at. That which is secure, can be depended upon. One way to secure something from falling is to fasten it: to attach it to something larger and more substantial, if not to the ground itself. Similarly, the most secure people are in some ways the most attached, and grounded. The Seeker consciously secures herself to authentic self, certain truth, and inspirited Earth. To that which is assured. The cure for insecurity is a deepened sense of self, truth, place and purpose. And a result of this deepening, is self love. Self love is a concept, an emotion.... and a practice. To properly love the self, one must be present with it. Consciously attend it. Acknowledge, honor and celebrate it. Nourish and reward it. We must take time to tune in to its soft-spoken needs, and take heed of its concerns. One who loves the self, is more secure in loving other people, other life forms, and those mountains or valleys we call “home.” And one who has practiced how to love the self well, knows how to best love another person, a kindred species, or a special place. As one becomes more conscious of their essential connectedness to the Whole, self-love expands to become love for the All. In this way, to honor Earth and others is to respect our human selves. And to denigrate the self is to insult the Godly universe we’re each an inseparable part of. Self worth comes only when we begin to recognize and experience our lives as truly, deeply significant. It swells proportionately with every challenge we rise to meet. It roots and strengthens with each difficult, selfless quest we prove capable of fulfilling. And it bears noble fruit, as we uncover our most meaningful purpose. One’s worth is determined by their capacity to share, not by how much they own— not by the amount of skills they have, but by the ways in which they employ them. New traditions and rituals are needed, that affirm and sanctify the inherent or learned gifts of the individual. Seek to create the varied opportunities whereby every “ordinary” person might excel, and thus learn to value and love their selves. Self worth is validated by doing the right thing, no matter what the costs— and not by whether we are liked, paid or applauded. To preserve the health and integrity of our psyches, societies, and this natural world, we must make a place in our hearts for heroes again... And discover the many fine ways of honoring everyday heroics. Altruism is the art of selflessly doing for others. Altruism begins with self love, and manifests as heroism. Being a hero requires more than simply surviving tragedy, oppression or calamity. Heroic means taking deliberate risks— and for the sake of something other than the narrowly defined self. Heroes are the kids who befriend the unpopular outcast, who risk censure by reading their most sensitive poetry, who pester the teacher to deliver up more, or who refuse to go to school at all. Heroes are the adults who take care of their dying parents, and who set examples for their children by putting their bodies between their beloved family or bioregion, and whoever or whatever might try to harm them. The most conscious heroes readily pay any price to do what they know in their heart is right for the good of the Whole. They may have given up on social acceptance, health assistance or material wealth, in order to save endangered rainforests or battered wives. Or they may give absolutely everything they have to the whole and holy land... and its timely and timeless teachings. No matter how fast we acquire material goods, honors, titles or responsibilities, we don’t feel truly “successful” until we’ve made a choice to risk more than our incomes or reputations for a precious person, place, or ideal. The more rare that authenticity, empathy, integrity and chivalry become in our societies, the more opportunities there are to be a hero. And the larger and more powerful the paradigm of distraction and destruction, the more imposing the dragon that we are privileged to face. Heroes aren’t always successful... which is exactly what makes their efforts so heroic. A hero is capable and courageous. But she or he is also polite, considerate, and concerned. With a penchant for art, gesture and flair! Every generation is born into its own Heroic Age. Every person is born with an equal chance to distinguish themselves, through the passion of their engagement and response, and the intensity of their love. Heroism is not about prowess, but willingness. Heroism is the difficult and selfless giving through which we assume maximum worth... and regain the most meaningful sense of sacred human self. |